u/nevillechaddard111 said:
For context: we are in the same italian class, didn’t talk at all, but this sunday he send me a huge bouquet and asked me out. i’m very shy when it comes to dates and i don’t really like him. Actually tbh i get weird vibes from him. Should i do it? My interpretation: unexpectedly, yes. from this o get that he is going to treat me really good and from the fool i think that i should take this new opportunity
lol we’re russian and it’s in our culture to send these huge bouquets 😂 so flower shops offer these services: the guy puts in the number of the girl he want to send flowers to, and the shop contacts her to let her know that somebody has send her flowers and she decides if she wants to receive them and texts the shop her address. it’s quite popular here
lol everybody telling me to go but i’m scared as shit 😭😭😭😭😭
i mean the huge expensive bouquet he send me without even getting to know me (keep in mind i’m 18f he’s 19m) it makes me think i owe him something
idk probably i will regret both but the second will be less pleasant so i think i will just go
Your Reading
While all of the cards seem positive on the surface, there’s The Fool in the end.
It looks like you were totally fine before the grand gesture with flowers, and from what you told here you didn’t think about him before at all. The 9 of Cups represents contentment and physical well-being. I assume that, despite your internal shyness, you look confident to others, plus you are good-looking – enough to spark interest from the opposite sex: when someone sends you flowers, they are really interested.
The gesture is impressive.
Notice that The Empress is a major trump – the guy went all in! Given that you never talked before, he doesn’t know you, so he chose an act that would, if not sweep you off your feet, surely not pass unnoticed either. He most likely hoped that it would guarantee a positive response. The motive is another story.
Flowers are the “heavy artillery” of courtship. By sending you flowers without knowing you, he’s revealed that he has very little experience with women, or the complete opposite, deliberately doing what has brought him success before. There is no direct depiction of him in the cards, so you would know better which of the two is the case. In any case, a gesture like that out of nowhere is a bit strange. With the Queen of Wands, one thing is clear: while he doesn’t know you at all, your intuition has already told you everything you need to know about him.
This is either a short-lived infatuation that may end as quickly and unexpectedly as it started, or a beginning of an obsession with a hint of a stalker. Bear that in mind if you decide not to go, and let him down easily. At the same time, don’t be vague and avoid saying something like “maybe later”, which can motivate him to continue to pursue you. Just tell him that you are not interested.
Your Answer
Flowers may be beautiful – and expensive – but it’s only romantic to give flowers when there’s at least a hint that the gesture is welcome. Don’t feel like you owe that person a date. You’re totally fine on your own, say no to a potential player or stalker.
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